October 9, 2024

Holy Apostle James, Son of Alpheus.
Polyeleos Feast.
1 Corinthians 4:9-16. Luke 10:16-21.

Read 1 Corinthians 4:9-16

St. Paul speaks to the Corinthians with a tone of paternal care, calling himself their ‘father’. This passage offers a reflection on the role of fatherhood, particularly spiritual fatherhood. A father is not merely a guardian who enforces rules, but someone who shapes the heart and soul of a child. Paul’s approach as a spiritual father emphasizes not correction through shame, but guidance motivated by love.  St. John Chrysostom says, “Paul is not claiming any dignity here, but rather he is showing the depth of his love. Dignity belongs to the teacher, but love is the mark of the father.” (Homilies on the Epistles of Paul to the Corinthians 13.4.5). His intention is to build up his “children” in Christ, providing them with an example to imitate. This reflects a key aspect of fatherhood—modelling virtues and deeds that lead to growth and spiritual maturity. St. Paul’s emphasis on imitation suggests that a father must embody the qualities he wishes to instil in his children. Ultimately, this passage reminds spiritual and biological fathers that their influence extends far beyond discipline—it lies in the example they set through their own lives, leading their children, not just with words, but with actions grounded in love and faith.

Today, offer a prayer of thanksgiving to God for the gift of fatherhood, both biological and spiritual, in our lives. Fathers are a blessing to us and deserve to be supported and appreciated. We should strive to accept their love and authority, and make it easier for them to love and guide us by loving and respecting them in return. May God bless all fathers and strengthen them to model virtue, goodness, and especially the love of our Heavenly Father—whose living icons they are called to be.